Psychology of Excuses

September 4, 2015January 1, 2018Leave a comment

Many people across ages struggle with looking for a job they desire, accepting a job offer/promotion, or making a change in their career direction.

“I am too busy to do anything about changing job.“
“I don’t have the ability to do the work.”
“I won’t be able to have work-life balance.”
“Many people think/see/act this way.”
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輔導室裡的故事

May 8, 2015January 1, 20181 Comment

White comfy chair

在輔導房間裡, 最常訴說未了的故事圍繞後悔 (regrets), 迷惘 (lost), 恐懼 (fear).

不容易講出來的故事, 自然會想避免接觸, 不去講也不去看. 可是, 這些未了的故事並沒有真的被遺忘, 那些情緒總會在生活, 工作, 關係裡隱約地出現.

故事 (已發生了的事情, 作過的抉擇) 是不能從頭來過.

承認故事裡的後悔, 迷惘或恐懼的存在, 學習與它們共處, 並接受它們是成為現在的你的一部分. 然後, 在整合中才能重新認識自己, 賦予那些故事新的意義, 逐步編寫將來人生故事的章節.

輔導就是關於承認, 共處與接納的過程.

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August 26, 2014January 1, 20181 Comment

Healing is a choice.
A difficult choice.
Yet, once you have made the choice and hang in there,
change and transformation will come.

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