人生最後悔的3件事

June 21, 2016January 1, 20181 Comment

What are your life regrets?
Some people keep self-pitying their life regret(s), while some deny having any regrets.
Both approaches do not help a person move forward in life.

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How to lead a better life?

April 25, 2016January 1, 2018Leave a comment

I used to have a Comfort Zone
Where I knew I couldn’t fail.
The same four walls of busy work
Were really more like jail.

I longed so much to do the things
I’d never done before,
But I stayed inside my Comfort Zone
And paced the same old floor.

I claimed to be so busy
With the things inside my zone,
But deep inside I longed for
Something special of my own.

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如何找到你的理想職業?

April 21, 2016January 1, 2018Leave a comment

Endless Road

無論是剛畢業的大學生或是在職中年人士, 前來接受生涯輔導, 很多是想找到他們的理想職業. 他們在學業/工作裡掙扎, 感到處於困局, 苦於沒有出路是他們的心理寫照.

“什麼工作都去找. 有就去做”
我想要的職業/工作環境是怎麼樣? 有穩定收入就可以? 我工作不開心, 心裡面有種迫切感, 很”心急”的想要離開那個讓自己困擾的工作環境 (例如: 讀個學位, 轉行). 我會”大包圍”的, 只要符合最低要求的工作就會去應徵. 如果有 offer或是有人介紹, 我往往就二話不說的去了. 當我做了那份工作後, 發覺自己根本沒有任何興趣, 然後遇到各樣 “意想不到” 的困難, 自己過得比辭工前更痛苦, 甚至每天上班的動力都失去. Continue reading →