故事是人生的隱喻, 一種發生的可能性.
每個故事都是一條[自我]理解世界的路徑, 幫助我們脫離迷惘狀態, 提供生活建議.
— 麥成輝
在工作的世界裡, 「問題天天都多」. 因此, 讓人容易跌入無力感, 憤世嫉俗(cynical)的心理漩渦．其實, 問題不是客觀的一件東西. 問題本身是一個故事, 一個當事人與其「問題」之間的故事.
B面對的工作問題是他時常很容易忟憎同發脾氣, 越不想發脾氣, 越忍住, 反而發脾氣越頻密, 也越激烈. 同事與上司都對他敬而遠之. 他為控制不了自己的情緒感到既痛苦又無助. Continue reading
“Burnout” is a common phenomenon at the workplace, yet people rarely come to realization about its occurrence in their worklife, and its implications to their survival in the changing work world and to their overall well-being.
What are your life regrets?
Some people keep self-pitying their life regret(s), while some deny having any regrets.
Both approaches do not help a person move forward in life.
I used to have a Comfort Zone
Where I knew I couldn’t fail.
The same four walls of busy work
Were really more like jail.
I longed so much to do the things
I’d never done before,
But I stayed inside my Comfort Zone
And paced the same old floor.
I claimed to be so busy
With the things inside my zone,
But deep inside I longed for
Something special of my own.
We are human being. We are not robots or machines.
Emotion is a core part of being a human.
10 年前Steve Jobs 被邀請在一所美國頂級大學的畢業典禮致辭. 那是一篇很有感染力的演講. 它的力量, 不只是因為他是 Steve Jobs, 內容更不是 “成功必勝法”, “我的勝利之道”等截徑式的演說．
Steve Jobs只是平實地述說他的3個生涯故事，從中讓我們看到與每一個人息息相關的3個主旨： Continue reading
Let us not look back in anger or forward in fear,
but around in awareness.
James Thurber, Author & Cartoonist
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